"With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Graduation day can come with a series of mixed feelings. You are excited, relieved, happy, and sad - a whirlwind of emotions. It is an amazing time and also, a very scary time - a major transition is happening! Also, while you have just achieved a huge milestone, there are so many more to come ahead.
Today I'm sharing my best advice for recent college and upcoming high school graduates.
Make a plan. It is super important to have a plan in place. Whether you are going to college, or hopping straight into the workforce - define a path that's best for you. For me, after high school, I went to an university and immediately knew what my major would be. After college, I had a job waiting for me in the career field of my choice. I've always been super organized and knew exactly what I wanted. Making plans have really helped me navigate my path and hone in on what was important for me. Your plan doesn't have to be perfect (and will change whether you like it or not), but it should be outlined in order for you to reach your goals.
Know who you are. It is really important to know what you like and who you are. Determine what your values are, and the things you enjoy. Knowing these key pieces will help you navigate your journey so much easier. Of course, your taste and style will change and evolve, but it is important to never stray away from who you are. Staying true, and being consistent in all areas of your life will carry you very far.
Nothing will be easy. There will always be challenges, and you will be tested, but know that those moments are temporary - even though they feel like an eternity. Stay strong in moments of adversity and take every situation as a learning experience. Know that every moment you encounter is strengthening and building your character.
Keep in touch. It's so important to keep the friendships and relationships you made while in school. You don't have to speak to them each and every day, but try super hard to stay connected. Whether it's a school reunion, social media, or attending a friend's wedding - it's essential to keep those bonds. Some of my closest friendships are the ones from college, and they absolutely mean the world to me.
It's okay to fail. Failing is not the end of the world, and through those times you learn so much. Some of my biggest failures, turned out to be my greatest blessings. I'm an absolute better woman learning what worked and didn't work so well for me. Also, the doors that are often closed aren't always meant for you - and that is totally fine. Take the time to explore, research, and understand what's the best fit and makes the most sense for you. It is absolutely worth it to take a few risks!
Congrats grad and good luck!
XO, Analise
